Dirty Truth or Dare: spicy questions and dares

150 dirty truth or dare questions and spicy dares to play with close friends or as a couple. The game starts on the Spicy 18+ level: bold, fun and never explicit.

2–12 players · 10–30 min · Spicy 18+

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Rules

How to play dirty Truth or Dare

The classic rules, with the heat turned up. The most important thing in the dirty version is that everyone has a good time: set your limits first and the night won't go sideways.

  1. 1Adults 18+ and close friends only

    Questions about crushes, dates and chemistry. Better with close friends or as a couple.

  2. 2Set your limits

    Anyone can pass on a question or dare, no explanation needed. Dares with contact only if the other person is up for it.

  3. 3Truth or dare

    On your turn you choose: confess or act. The group decides if the answer or the dare counts.

  4. 4Passing costs something

    A sip, water or a different dare. No pressuring anyone.

  5. 5What happens at the table…

    …stays at the table. No recording and no sharing what gets confessed.

Dirty truth questions and spicy dares

All 150 truths and dares from the Spicy level. Pick the ones that fit your group or let the game draw them at random.

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Dirty truth or dare questions

Spicy 18+

Crushes, dates, exes and confessions.

  1. What gesture do you find most irresistible in someone?
  2. What's the most unexpected date you've ever been on?
  3. What's the sign that tells you there's chemistry?
  4. Who here would you trust to set you up on a blind date?
  5. What's the boldest text you've ever sent?
  6. What's the craziest thing you've done to get someone to like you?
  7. What was your first kiss with your last crush or partner like?
  8. Who here would you go on a trip with, just the two of you?
  9. What was your most disastrous date?
  10. Who here caught your eye the first time you met them?
  11. What's your pickup line that never fails?
  12. What would you never do on a first date?
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  1. Have you ever gotten back together with an ex? Why?
  2. What's the hardest text you've ever had to send?
  3. What do you love hearing the most from someone you're into?
  4. What lie have you told to impress a date, and how long did it last?
  5. What's your biggest red flag?
  6. Which dating apps have you used, and how did it go?
  7. Who from your past would you text tonight?
  8. What's the most romantic thing you've ever done?
  9. What was your most intense summer fling like?
  10. What's an absolute dealbreaker for you in a partner?
  11. What's your type, and who here comes closest?
  12. What's your record for the shortest time between meeting someone and kissing them?
  13. What's the most jealous you've ever been?
  14. What secret would you never tell a partner?
  15. What's the weirdest place you've ever kissed someone?
  16. What would you do if your ex walked through that door right now?
  17. What song reminds you of an ex so much you can't listen to it anymore?
  18. What's the cheesiest thing you've ever written in a text?
  19. How long do you wait to text back someone you like so you don't look too eager?
  20. What have you done to run into someone you liked “by accident”?
  21. What kind of dating profile makes you swipe left instantly?
  22. What's something about you that you know people find attractive, and do you use it to your advantage?
  23. What excuse have you used to escape a date halfway through?
  24. Have you ever broken up with someone over text? Do you regret it?
  25. What small thing on a first date wins you over for good?
  26. Have you ever fallen for a friend? Did they find out?
  27. Who here would you ask for dating advice, and whose advice would you never take?
  28. What date would you love to relive exactly as it happened?
  29. Have you ever been caught staring at someone too long? What did you do?
  30. Which celebrity is your secret crush that nobody would ever guess?
  31. What's the most original date idea anyone has pitched to you?
  32. What makes you most nervous before a date?
  33. Have you ever deep-dived someone's socials before a first date? How far back did you scroll?
  34. What text from a crush do you still have screenshotted?
  35. What have you pretended to like to impress someone?
  36. What ghosting hurt you the most?
  37. Have you ever brought someone home to meet your family and regretted it later?
  38. What's the most obvious hint someone dropped that went right over your head?
  39. What smell or cologne reminds you of someone from your past?
  40. What's the worst pickup line anyone has ever used on you?
  41. What dance move do you save for when you want to impress someone?
  42. What's the sweetest thing an ex ever said to you?
  43. Have you ever given a terrible date a second chance? How did it go?
  44. Who here has the most mysterious love life?
  45. What emoji do you use when you're flirting?
  46. Who would you want to kiss at midnight on New Year's Eve?
  47. What's the weirdest thing a date has ever confessed to you?
  48. What would you change about your last relationship if you could go back?
  49. What's the sweetest thing you do when you have a crush that nobody knows about?
  50. Have you ever been on a double date? Who had better luck?
  51. Have you ever invented a partner to get someone to stop hitting on you?
  52. What's the most movie-worthy kiss you've ever had?
  53. What dating rule do you set for yourself and always end up breaking?
  54. What has to happen on a first date for you to want a second one?
  55. Who have you had chemistry with when you really shouldn't have? No names.
  56. What have you done on a date just to make it last a little longer?
  57. What tiny detail instantly killed your interest in someone?
  58. What's the most bizarre way you've ever met someone you dated?
  59. What's the most unexpected confession of feelings you've ever gotten?
  60. What's the boldest thing you've done to make someone jealous?
  61. Which date turned into a friendship, and who decided that?
  62. What do all your exes have in common?
  63. What would you wear on a date where you want to leave a lasting impression?
  64. What was your longest date, the kind that starts with coffee and ends at 2 a.m.?
  65. What do you wish someone had the guts to say to your face?
  66. How do you play it cool when someone you like walks into the room?
  67. Which friend set you up with someone, with the worst possible results?
  68. Who here do you think flirts the most without realizing it?
  69. What rom-com scene would you love to live out with your crush?
  70. What's the most surprising thing you've learned about someone on a second date?
  71. What office romance have you been part of or watched up close?
  72. What's the boldest move you've ever made to get someone's attention?
  73. What's the worst possible moment an ex has ever texted you?

Spicy dares

Spicy 18+

Bold but not over the top. The ones with contact, only if the other person is up for it.

  1. Hold intense eye contact with someone for five seconds.
  2. Give someone here a sincere, specific compliment.
  3. Whisper to the person on your left what you like most about them (if they're up for it; if not, say it out loud).
  4. Give your phone camera your best smoldering look.
  5. Give the person on your right the cheesiest compliment you can come up with.
  6. Slow dance for ten seconds with someone the group picks, if they're up for it.
  7. Give the person on your left a 20-second shoulder rub, if they're up for it.
  8. Declare your love in rhyme to the person across from you.
  9. Show the last three emojis you sent and explain the conversation they were in, no names.
  10. Show us exactly how you flirt on a night out.
  11. Write a flirty text to someone the group picks and read it out loud (don't send it).
  12. Host a dating show with two people here as contestants.
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  1. Play the song that puts you in a romantic mood and dance to it for ten seconds.
  2. Pick someone and describe your first date together in 15 seconds.
  3. Tell the person across from you which song you'd dedicate to them, and why.
  4. Give your best wink to someone the group picks.
  5. Give a ten-second hug to someone the group picks, if they're up for it.
  6. Describe the person on your left like they're a dating-app profile.
  7. Play matchmaker: pair up two people here and defend your choice.
  8. Act out a dramatic soap-opera jealousy scene with someone you pick, if they're up for it.
  9. Tell the story of your worst attempt at flirting like it's a Greek tragedy.
  10. Pick two people here and narrate their first date like a nature documentary.
  11. Make up the most romantic pickup line possible using something on the table.
  12. Read a menu or your grocery list in your most seductive voice.
  13. Make a toast to your most memorable ex without saying their name.
  14. Act out how you react when someone you like texts you.
  15. Give someone a cute nickname the group has to use for the rest of the game.
  16. Say who here would be your perfect wedding date, and why.
  17. In 20 seconds, act out how you'd confess your feelings at an airport, rom-com style.
  18. Read the love life of the person on your right from their palm, without touching it.
  19. With someone you pick (if they're up for it), act out a telenovela make-up scene after a ridiculous fight.
  20. List your three green flags and let the group vote on whether they believe you.
  21. Pick someone and come up with your celebrity couple name by mashing your names together.
  22. Have a 30-second speed date with someone the group picks: three questions each.
  23. Show the photo you'd use on a dating profile and let the group rate it.
  24. Name three signs someone's flirting with you and act them out.
  25. Blow a kiss to someone the group picks.
  26. Toast the pair here with the most chemistry, even if they're not a couple.
  27. Turn down an imaginary date from someone the group picks as gracefully as possible.
  28. Do a perfume commercial for a fragrance named after you, whispery voice and smoldering look included.
  29. Pick someone and improvise running into an ex on the street: you play the ex.
  30. Serenade someone the group picks for ten seconds with the cheesiest love song you know.
  31. Pick someone and, at the same time, say your ideal date in one word: if you match, the group toasts you both.
  32. Act out getting an “I love you” way too soon, right in the middle of a second date.
  33. Be a dating coach and give the person across from you three tips for their next date.
  34. Show how you say goodbye at the end of a great date, and at the end of a terrible one.
  35. Play “Kiss, Date or Just Friends” with three fictional characters the group picks.
  36. Act out asking someone out for the first time over the phone; we only hear your side.
  37. Play ten seconds of the song that reminds you most of a past crush, no names.
  38. Someone whispers a message to you (“I like you,” “Save me”…); get it across to someone the group picks using only your eyes until they guess it.
  39. Describe your perfect partner like you're placing a DoorDash order.
  40. Let the person on your right “sell” you to the group in 20 seconds as the best catch at this party.
  41. Act out the “So… what are we?” talk with someone, if they're up for it.
  42. The group gives you three quirks of an imaginary date: decide on the spot if you'd see them again.
  43. Do the voice you use when you're talking to someone you like.
  44. Ask someone here on a date like you're in Bridgerton, with all the formalities.
  45. Sum up your love life with three movie titles.
  46. Until your next turn, answer everything like you're on a date that's going amazingly.
  47. With someone (if they're up for it), act out the moment the check arrives on a first date and negotiate who pays.
  48. Write a two-line dating-profile bio for yourself and let the group edit it.
  49. Make your best “walk into the bar like you own the place” entrance.
  50. Give a 15-second TED Talk on how to flirt.
  51. Describe your dream date using only emojis on your phone and let the group guess it.
  52. Turn a famous movie line into a pickup line and deliver it to someone the group picks.
  53. Introduce yourself like a contestant in the intro clip of a reality dating show.
Want to start milder?

Classic Truth or Dare

303 Mild and Party truths and dares to break the ice before you turn up the heat.

See classic Truth or Dare →

What makes dirty Truth or Dare different

In dirty Truth or Dare, the questions are about first kisses, disastrous dates and exes who keep coming back, and the dares heat up: eye contact, compliments, slow dances and flirty texts you'd never normally send. Everything is bold but never explicit.

It works just as well with close friends as with a partner, and it's perfect for halfway through the night, once the group has loosened up on the Party level.

Dirty Truth or Dare for couples

For two people, dirty Truth or Dare is a fun way to learn things about each other and build some chemistry. Take turns and let the other person ask a follow-up question when an answer falls short.

If you like the format, try juicy Never Have I Ever too, and dirty Who's Most Likely To when there are more of you.

Before the first round

Truth or Dare dirty FAQ

01What is dirty Truth or Dare?

It's the 18+ version of Truth or Dare: same rules, but with questions about crushes, dates and chemistry, and bolder dares. No explicit content.

02What's the difference between dirty and spicy Truth or Dare?

None: they're two names for the bold version of the game. Here you'll find dirty questions and spicy dares on the same level.

03Can couples play?

Yes, it works really well with two people. Take turns and allow a follow-up question when an answer falls short.

04Do the dares involve contact?

A few, like a slow dance or a shoulder rub, and always with “if they're up for it”. Nobody has to do anything they don't want to.

05What if I don't want to answer?

You can pass: a sip, water or a different dare. Agree before you start that passing is allowed.

06Can you play online?

Yes. You can play on one phone or create a room so everyone plays from their own, even long-distance.

07Do you have to drink alcohol?

No. Every sip can be swapped for water, soda or a dare.

08Where are the regular questions?

On Truth or Dare, with 303 Mild and Party truths and dares.